Poll - October is the most popular wedding month

Based on our last poll these are the top six months to get married. If you are getting married in one of these months please let us know to see which is the most popular month to get married.

May  17% June  19% July  12% August  10% September  15% October  28%

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Wedding Ideas ~ Lakeside Outdoor Wedding Theme Inspiration Board

Michelle Mospens is the founder of My Personal Artist Unique Wedding Invitations, has shared yet another Wedding Inspiration board with us. Here a lakeside outdoor themed wedding inspiration board.

Wedding Ideas ~ Lakeside Outdoor Wedding Theme Inspiration Board

by artist and designer Michelle Mospens

I absolutely LOVE the magical OUTDOOR FEEL this inspiration board holds. Notice the details of the TREE, LAKE and DOCK in the hand-painted 'Lakeside Wedding' invitation!

Most popular Months to get married.

We recently asked our brides which month are you getting married in? And we were a bit surprised by the results. Fall weddings are more popular than ever.

Which Month Are you Getting Married In?

January - February 5% March - April 11% May - June 20% July - August 21% September - October 31% November - December 12%

Your Flower Style

A great way to express your own personal style is with the use of flowers. While the notion of flowers at a wedding is anything but new, incorporating them in subtle yet meaningful ways has fast become the latest twist on a time honored tradition. Flowers, like gemstones, are linked to corresponding birth months and for this reason a lot can be said by simply introducing a few blooms here and there. By adding their birth flowers brides are creatively personalizing their gowns, bouquets and centerpieces – and this is just for starters. In addition, some couples have begun to use the flower that corresponds to their wedding month to symbolize the birth of their new life together as husband and wife. Check the chart below to locate your birth month and its representational flower.

January	Carnation
February	Violet
March	Daffodil
April	Daisy
May	Lily of the Valley
June	Rose
July	Larkspur
August	Gladiolus
September	Aster
October	Calendula
November	Chrysanthemum
December	Poinsettia

Once you begin to think in terms of those things that hold special meaning to you personalizing your choice of flowers can expand to include special memories that you and the groom share, special people, such as parents (moms especially will love this thoughtful little touch) and bride’s maids too will be honored when you include their birth flower into their individual bouquets. As with every other decision you make for your wedding the ultimate is to be true to your own personal style. Remember, flowers speak the language of love. So whether they are sewn beautifully into the plunging backline of your gown (my personal favorite) or just petals strewn about on a banquet table, their presence has the capacity to conjure happy memories of the past and even happier ones for the future.

Sharon Naylor is the author of 1000 Best Secrets For Your Perfect Wedding and over 35 additional wedding books, www.sharonnaylor.net .

San Antonio Texas Weddings

We have added a San Antonio wedding page  to help all of you who are planning a wedding in the great city of San Antonio Texas, and the surrounding areas. 

Whether you are downtown, in the East End, or Midtown, or are planning a beach wedding in nearby Galveston, the San Antonio area make a wonderful location for your dream wedding.

So if you are planning a San Antonio wedding in Texas, WedAlert just made your wedding planning easier!

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Green Wedding Tips

We had posted an article about Green weddings back in 2007, and it remains even more important today:

Here are some tips when planning an eco-friendly green wedding, which incorporates ecologically and socially responsible products and services.

• Location: The first element to set the tone is the location. Environmentally aware pairs are opting for botanical gardens over ballrooms. Many couples are having their nuptials on untouched terrain, for example nature preserves, the beach, parks or their own backyards.

• Keep it local: Whenever possible, use local resources for your wedding. In addition to saving on transportation, you’ll be supporting small businesses and your local economy.

• Bridal gowns: Wear natural fibers like organically grown cotton, silk and hemp, which are becoming increasingly popular. If you are having a dress designed, make sure that it doesn’t contain any synthetic materials or chemical dyes. Many brides to be are also turning to vintage dresses or pre-worn wedding gowns from their family members which also adds a hint of nostalgia.

• Invitations: Use recycled or tree free paper for your invitations.

• Catering: When choosing your caterer, find one who specializes in organic ingredients. Vegetarian and vegan diets are popular for many reasons including health, ethical and environmental concerns. Speak to your caterer to discuss and create an interesting and delicious menu sans meat, dairy and processed sugars. For example, an interesting and delectable entrée would be herb-roasted seitan with grilled artichokes, Mediterranean grilled vegetables with balsamic glaze and wasabi mashed potatoes. Support local farms orchards and vineyards by buying your produce and wine there. The demand for ecologically responsible and healthy food is a growing trend overall in the catering field. Choose organic wine which is made from grapes and grown without the use of synthetic fertilizers, pesticides or other chemicals which damage soil and water. There are many organic wine vineyards to choose from.

• Wedding cake: Find a baker that will make a cake with organic, natural and fair trade ingredients. Be sure to serve fair trade coffee!

• Transportation: Show up in style, Get chauffeured in eco-chic hybrid limousines or opt for the old fashioned horse and buggy.

• After the ceremony: Have guests toss freeze dried flower petals or ecofetti (biodegradable confetti). Eco friendly Birdseed or biodegradable rice is also popular.

• Flowers: Find a local florist who recycles everything they use from the flowers and foliage. Use potted living plants as centerpieces for the tables instead of cut floral arrangements. Select arrangements that can be replanted, and invite your guests to take them home to replant.

• Favors: Organic chocolates make great gifts with a personalized note printed on recycled paper. Jars filled with organic jams, jellies or honey. Handmade soaps or candles are a nice touch as well.

• Candles: Use soy candles, its romantic and energy efficient. They are cleaner and longer burning than regular candles.

• Photography: When choosing a photographer, make sure you chose a photographer that works in digital format. Digital photos are easier to share and much more environmentally friendly. No harmful chemicals, film or wasted paper. If you are set on film photography, there are less toxic developing methods, discuss this option with your photographer.

• Honeymoon: When planning your honeymoon, consider the rainforest in Costa Rica or an amazing adventurous escape at an eco friendly holistic luxurious spa in Africa or Fiji.

By Kristin Ciccolella, WedAlert

Emerald Coast Weddings

We have added an Emerald Coast wedding page  to help all of you who are planning a wedding in the Emerald Coast of Florida. 

The beautiful beaches of Destin, South Walton, Fort Walton Beach, Pensacola and Panama City Beach make a wonderful location for your dream wedding.

So if you are planning an Emerald Coast wedding in Florida, WedAlert just made your wedding planning easier!

Your Bridesmaid No Longer Your BFF? When to Give Your Bridesmaid the Boot.

Some advice to bride's from down under.

Stacy Dymalski, a Wedding Planner based in Sydney, Australia, gives the following advice about troublesome bridesmaids.

Anyone who said best friends are forever never planned a wedding. Just because you’ve known your bridesmaids since kindergarten doesn’t mean they all envision your wedding day as the same spectacular event you’ve dreamed of since you were 12.

Picking your bridesmaids is one of the most important decisions in planning your wedding. And even though you may feel obligated to choose someone you’ve known your whole life, you should consider the purpose of a bridesmaid before deciding who she should be. First and foremost, a bridesmaid is there to witness the commitment you are about to make to your future husband and to emotionally support you throughout your marriage. So if you’re considering a bridesmaid who A) doesn’t like the guy you’re marrying, B) doesn’t believe in marriage, or C) hates men, you might want to think about giving her some other ceremonial task, like managing the guest book. The last thing you need is a scowling bridesmaid in every picture.

Bridesmaids also help fulfill many of the small jobs that need to be done the day you walk down the aisle. In many ways, your bridesmaids are your ambassadors, representing you to your guests and the people you hire. So if you have a friend who sometimes forgets to show up, has colorful language, or likes to get tipsy at parties and tell embarrassing stories about your childhood, you may not want her front and center at your wedding.

But even with careful consideration, it’s possible to unwittingly pick a bridesmaid who turns out to be a horror show. If that happens, it’s okay to fire her. So where do you draw the line on bad behavior? Anything that resembles the following is just cause for the boot:
1. She misses important wedding-related functions like fittings, appointments, parties, or rehearsals.
2. She’s so wrapped up in the drama in her life (like a break-up, stress at work, problems with her children, etc.) that she can’t focus on her bridesmaid duties.
3. She criticizes every decision you make (but doesn’t offer any realistic options).
4. She tries to take control of your wedding plans. (Remember this is YOUR wedding. Her input is appreciated, but not the final word.)
5. She has a negative attitude about the man you’re marrying (and/or his family).
6. She makes changes to your existing wedding plans (like the seating chart or flower choices) without consulting you first.
7. She takes it upon herself to have her bridesmaid dress altered to include a plunging neckline that would make Britney Spears blush.
8. She refuses to help plan pre-wedding functions such as a shower, hens’ parties, or a girls’ night out. (Or worse yet, she says she’ll plan them, but then doesn’t.)
9. She tells your fiancé about your past 10 boyfriends when you’ve only told him about four (and he’s not impressed).
10. She insists on being the center of attention in any group of people.

It may seem obvious that these bridesmaids must be sacked, but when the culprit in question is your sister-in-law, a favorite co-worker, or a life long friend, guilt can prevent you from making the hard choice. Above all, you have to ask yourself, is my bridesmaid causing me more undue pain than if she weren’t my bridesmaid? If the answer is yes, she needs to go.

So how does one fire a bridesmaid? Start by making a list of her inappropriate behaviors and privately talk to her about each one and why it bothers you. If she’s truly sorry and vows to change her conduct, you might give her another chance. If she becomes defensive, take the high road and let her have her say. When she’s finished calmly explain that you value her friendship and want to stay friends, but that every friend doesn’t have to be a bridesmaid. If she chooses to sever your friendship, then ask yourself, was she really that good of a friend to begin with? Only dear friends want what’s best for you when planning your wedding. And let’s face it, isn’t that who you want surrounding you on one of the most important days of your life?

Stacy Dymalski
Girl Friday Weddings

Planning a Wedding in Today’s Economy

Don’t Let the Recession Blues Impact Your Big Day!

You’ve been dreaming about and planning your wedding since you were a little girl. Who knew an economy, like no other one in history, would have to be a factor in your special day! Unfortunately, reality is that, just like everyone else, brides and grooms, have to plan with our challenging economic times in mind. JoAnn Latorraco, General Manager of The Waters Edge at Giovanni’s, notes that while the economy is having an impact on some couple’s wedding day plans, there is a way to create the event of a lifetime, and stay within your newly trimmed budget. “Brides and their families are getting creative when planning a wedding in today’s economy,” said Latorraca. “There are useful ideas that can help young couples save money, yet still create their dream wedding.”

1. Carefully review your guest list. Limiting the number of guests quickly brings down the cost of a wedding. In the past couple of decades, it was not unheard of to have a wedding with 300 people. Now, couples want to create greater intimacy by making sure that their guest list reflects those closest to them.

2. Make creative food choices. It’s not necessary to offer guests a choice of multiple meat entrees. Consider one meat entree and one vegetarian dish. Or switch the chilled lobster appetizer for a salad.

3. Consider alternative dates for booking your hall. Those seeking greater value might wish to choose a Friday night or Sunday afternoon affair. Also think about having your wedding in the Winter months.

4. Prioritize your “must-haves.” Some couples feel music is the life of the party and must have that fabulous 10-piece band. Others feel flowers create the mood for the entire event. Certainly, dedicate more of your budget to the items that mean the most to you.

5. Save on the bridal gown. From sales at bridal shops, to online bridal exchanges, young women are finding creative ways to have that perfect wedding at a more affordable price.

6. Save on wedding favors. Instead of an expensive knick-knack, get creative. Potpourri, sachets or chocolates are inexpensive alternatives.

7. Skip the Destination Wedding idea. It’s not only more expensive for you, but it’s a burden on your guests who have to travel to get there.

8. Create a Honeymoon Registry. There are honeymoon websites that offer registries just like major retailers. Small donations from each of your guests add up.

9. Stay in the U.S. for your honeymoon. Rather than go overseas, save money and spend the money here to stimulate the U.S. economy!

10. Communicate with your wedding planner. Be sure your wedding venue and planner add value and are committed to working within your budget.

The Waters Edge at Giovanni's

Planning a “Man Shower” for the Groom-To-Be

Karen Sullen of MyWeddingFavors.com asks: Why should the bride have all the fun?

She proposes an alternative to the bachelor party, the “Man Shower” as a fun way for the groom to be showered with gifts and well wishes.

Planning a “Man Shower” for the Groom-To-Be
By: Karen Sullen

Bridal showers have come a long way, indeed. First there was the traditional shower for women only, then the couple’s shower with a co-ed guest list, and now we welcome the “Man Shower!” It’s the same idea as a bridal shower, but with a manly twist. A great alternative to a bachelor party, groomsmen, family and friends gather to wish the groom well. Rather than a night of partying with scantily-clad women, this men-only event features plenty of manly foods, gifts and games. And why shouldn’t they have their own? Ladies have enjoyed their private showers for years. So if your future husband decides he wants to get in on some shower action, try these themes.

King Of The Grill: A sizzlin’ summer cookout makes a great setting for a “Man Shower.” Hubby-to-be will be king of the grill, and guests can bring everything to outfit a barbeque, including the grill, utensils and more! Giving each guest a personalized bottle of hot sauce is a great way to end the day.

Beach Bum: Plan a day at the beach or a sailing excursion for the groom and his crew. Take in the sights of dolphins just off the shore or go deep-sea fishing. It’s the perfect way for the groom to celebrate sailing into his new life. Guests can fill his “boat” with nautical or beach wedding favors and gifts.

Fore Him: A golf-themed shower is perfect for the golf-enthusiast. If you hold it at the clubhouse of a great golf course, guests can play a “round” after he opens a round of golf-themed gifts, like golf towels, balls and golf ball bottle openers.

Stock The Bar: The bar is open and ready for guests to bring the groom’s favorite wine. Enjoy a private wine-tasting with sumptuous foods for an upscale gathering. From bottle stoppers and glasses to a personalized “old world” bar sign to accent the home, this is a definite twist on giving home furnishings!

No matter which theme you choose, the “Man Shower” is a great way for the groom to celebrate and bond with close family and friends. Beyond the gifts, the memories will last a lifetime!

WedAlert thanks Karen for the great ideas. You can also read more about unique ideas for the grooms by checking out Weekend Adventures-A New Trend in Bachelor Parties

Easy Ways to Personalize Your Wedding

Injecting your big day with a little creativity to personalize your wedding can be one of the most rewarding activities you undertake throughout the planning stages. Start by elaborating on your mutual interests or focus on the things that brought you together. If you met in a coffee shop, serve up some home-brewed, gourmet coffee during the reception or as unique wedding favors. If you were engaged while on a skiing trip in Colorado, decorate your reception tables with snowflake-themed elements. Though you have a lot of choices to make in the coming months, making your wedding day your own should be a special collaboration between you and your new partner.

Customizing your wedding day will always link your special day with you and your soon-to-be in your guests' minds. Though there are many things that happen behind the scenes, many of your choices will be dictated by your theme, color selection, and wedding date or place. Engaging your guests on your wedding day with relevant activities, dress code requests, menu selections, and unique wedding favors ensures that your families and friends will be talking about your wedding for years to come!

Select Customized, Unique Wedding Favors. The wedding favors you select are important because it's the memento your guests take home. Choosing a favor with utility in mind guarantees your guests will use the favor long after your wedding day. Coasters, candles, wine bottle stoppers, luggage tags, and personality boxes are all popular with the savvy bride who mixes and matches unique wedding favors to suit her guests' needs and interests.

Your own unique wedding favors can all be decorated with your colors or themes, tying your day together flawlessly. The decision to personalize wedding favors is always a big hit with crowds, with items that include photo albums, sticky notes and notepads. Personalize your wedding using favors such as tasteful crystal flutes, ribbons, luxurious fabrics, and boxes.
Choose a Theme Based on Your Interests. A theme is an excellent way to personalize your wedding and a fun way for guests to participate. Though they range from the eccentric – fantasy and sci-fi – to the elegant – seasonal and destination, a theme, complete with food, decorations, colors, and unique wedding favors, makes your wedding day a cohesive event that guests will long remember.

Say you and your new partner are big fans of bungee jumping; personalize your wedding by taking it to an extreme level – do a jump just after your first kiss as husband and wife. Or, for a more traditional touch, wear your grandmother's lovely silk wedding dress from the '40s and throw a big, vintage wedding bash complete with a live swing band.

A destination event is another idea that brides are using to personalize the wedding day. It's more like a vacation within a wedding, which gives your guests an opportunity to get away, see a new place, and attend your big day. Many couples decide to exchange vows in tropical climates, though this is by no means a requisite. Though destination weddings are a bit pricier than their traditional counterparts, it's an exciting adventure for both you and your guests. If you're short on money, turn your ceremony and reception into an homage to a destination or locale you both love. Serve inventive cocktails, unique wedding favors, and require everyone to show up in Hawaiian attire.

Use Colors, Flowers, and Food to Great Effect. Personalize your wedding by designing the menu with both of your favorites in mind, treating guests to a smorgasbord of decadent appetizers, entrees, sides, and desserts. For the main, anticipated dessert, some brides have elected to personalize the wedding cake by serving flavorful cupcakes with the couples' new monogram. You can also decorate the cake with unusual wedding toppers, bake with new flavors, or add colorful, vibrant frosting options.
If you are throwing a beach-themed wedding, for instance, your colors will consist of rich caramels, honeys, blues, and baby yellows. You can use these hues on the decorations at both your wedding and reception – drape chairs with silky honey fabric, place unique wedding favors in the shape of seashells strategically by the plate settings, and top your reception tables with sky blue table covers.

The colors you use to personalize your wedding will underscore your theme if used effectively, and flowers, too, can be useful if placed appropriately and will continue to echo your theme throughout the night. Though the most popular flower choices remain calla lilies, gardenias, and hydrangeas, all of which you can order to match your colors and theme, many other flowers, such as roses, birds of paradise, tulips, and hibiscus, will capture the romance and style of your wedding day as well.
Don't Be Afraid to Get Creative. Remember that, after all, it is your day. This is your time to plan an event your guests will never forget and a prime opportunity to let your personality and interests shine through. Use your creativity to select unique wedding favors, rich, vibrant colors, and exotic decorations. Don't be afraid to personalize your wedding by mixing the old traditions of the bride and groom's families with your new ideas. Though the day may be hectic for you, with your own blend of personalization and sophistication, it will be a day that you and your soon-to-be will never forget.


Cherie Johnson
Creative Bride

Recently engaged...What's next?

Happy New Year!

So you just got engaged, now what. After the many congratulations are received for all those who got engaged over the holiday the task of planning your wedding begins.

Here are a few tips and tools from WedAlert.

First, sit down with your fiance and go over the budget. The more detailed you can be, and the more you adhere to your budget plan, the less stress you will encounter. We have put together a Wedding Budget Checklist that you can print out for help creating your own plan. When creating your budget, you may want to consider the traditional wedding expense breakdown to find out "Who Pays for What". However, our recent polling reveals that these traditions of who pays are changing. WedAlert also offers tips for Planning a Wonderful Wedding on a Realistic Budget which is especially relevant given the current economic climate.

Secondly, wedding planning follows a logical timeline. You cannot book the essential vendors such as a photographer, or wedding band until you have secured the wedding date and reception location. WedAlert offers a twelve month wedding planning calendar to help you with your upcoming marriage plans.

Third, begin to look for essential wedding professionals. The internet has made this task much easier than in the past, since you can compare vendors online from the comfort of your home, in your own time, and without travel. However, once you have narrowed down your selections, it is strongly suggested that you meet the vendors "face to face", and that you view personally all the items and services to be used in your wedding celebration. Start with using the WedAlert Reception Site Locator to search our database of Banquet Halls, Catering Halls, Mansions, Yachts, Hotels, Reception Halls, Country Clubs, Lofts, Museums, Restaurants, Gardens, and other unique spaces. Once you have booked your date search our directory to find all the essential local and national wedding professionals.

Fourth, focus on the details. Find the perfect bridal gown, decide on favors, toasting glasses and other items to use at your ceremony or wedding reception. WedAlert offers another checklist to help you with purchasing all your wedding necessities. You may also want to find the perfect wedding songs to walk down the aisle to, use for your first dance, or any of your parent or other specialty dances. Find over 1,400 wedding song samples in the WedAlert wedding music library.

Lastly, maintain a good attitude, remain positive, and have a sense of humor.

WedAlert also has the following tools and recommended articles to help you plan your upcoming event:
Bridal Gowns and Bridesmaids Dresses
Bridal Registry List
Schedules of Bridal Shows in your area
Honeymoon Vacation Ideas and Suggested Itineraries
An online wedding consultant - Ask Mikki
Top 10 Honeymoon Destinations List
Top Bridal Fitness Questions (And Their Answers)
Wedding Photography Check List
Many more helpful articles
Honeymoon Giveaway contest.

Good luck, have fun, and best wishes on your upcoming wedding from all of us at WedAlert.

Get the Most Out of Bridal Shows

It’s almost that time of the year! Bridal Show season is just around the corner. Not surprising since 19% of all engagements take place in December. All other months are only 9% or less! (Source: Fairchild American Wedding Survey).

A Bridal Show is a great place to get started with your wedding plans. Held at various types of venues – including convention centers, banquet halls, even your local shopping mall -- they can be quite large (100 different vendors or more!) or much smaller, and more intimate (only 10-20 different vendors). But regardless of the size, the main purpose is still the same, you get a chance to take a sneak peek at the local professionals – see examples of their work, taste samples of cakes and foods, and collect vendor brochures and literature.

While tempting, now is not the time to get all of your planning done in a whirlwind of a few hours. You want to be a savvy shopper, and select just the right vendors for you. Before you go, here are some tips offered by Jean Neuhart, Professional Bridal Consultant, and owner of Weddings From The Heart, to make the trip easier, fun, and worthwhile.

Create a game plan. Which types of vendors you are most interested in? Are you looking for a DJ? Perhaps you still need a florist. Figure out the types of vendors you most want to see, then plan on visiting their booths first.

Things to bring: Pen and paper, (you’ll want to take notes). A tote bag (to carry all those flyers and brochures you’ll be picking up). Address labels (saves time filling out all those contest and door prize slips). Cash (to pay for admission and to purchase a light snack or beverage). Checkbook or credit card (in case you find the perfect vendor and want to put down a deposit).

Wear comfortable shoes. And if possible, leave your coat in the car. You’ll have enough to carry without having to lug around or wear a coat. And you’ll be that much happier if you’re comfortable. Also, wear clothing with pockets. When you come across a vendor that you especially want to remember, place his or her card in your pocket instead of in the tote bag where it can get mixed up with all of the other cards and flyers you’ll be getting.

Bring only one or two people with you. Have mom, your maid of honor, a bridesmaid, or fiancé come along. They can help you carry the brochures you’ve picked up, and you’ll have someone who knows you to bounce ideas off of. Just don’t bring a whole entourage. It’s harder to keep a large group together (you don’t want to be spending your time looking for who you came with!) Also, too many people will offer too many different opinions, which will be confusing, and not enjoyable at all.

Eat before the show. Not all shows offer snacks for purchase, and you don’t want to be walking around on an empty tummy! While there will be plenty of yummy samples of foods and cakes to try, this is not the place to load up your plate for a meal.

Take notes. Jot down pricing and package information, as well as your personal opinions. Is there anything about a vendors’ personality that stands out to you? Is he or she courteous and polite, or unfriendly and grumpy? Are they enjoying themselves, or do they seem to want to be somewhere else? After you get home and are sorting through that pile of flyers you’ve picked up, it will be hard to remember who was who. A few notes will help remind you who you’ll want to contact later, (and who you want to steer clear of!).

A popular portion of most bridal shows is the Fashion Show. If you’re like most brides, you’ll want to attend it, so find a seat early – at least 20-30 minutes before it starts. However, if you already have your gown, or otherwise aren’t planning on attending the fashion show, use this time to talk with the vendors you are most interested in. Things will be much more quiet and calm, and you’ll have a better chance at getting their undivided attention.

Don’t feel that you have to make a decision at the show. Sure, all of the vendors would love for you to sign on the dotted line right then, and may even offer a discount if you do. But wouldn’t you rather be a savvy shopper and take time to carefully look over everything and figure out which vendors will truly best suit the style of wedding you and your fiancé envision?

Before you decide to book someone, be very thorough. Carefully read everything (literature, samples, flyers, contract – EVERYTHING!!) before you sign and put down a deposit. Make sure what they offer is really right for your wedding vision, is what you and your fiancé really want, and that their terms are acceptable. Ask questions so there is a complete understanding between you and the vendor. You don’t want that ‘great deal’ to turn out to be a headache because you didn’t notice the "additional costs" or the "fine print".

So go and enjoy yourself! It’s just a bridal show!

by Jean Neuhart
Weddings from the Heart

"Cure for the Wedding Day Blues" Contest

We thought we would let you know that Behind the Veil, a New Jersey company that produces bi-annual bridal expos, is having a "Cure for the Wedding Day Blues" Contest.

Official Rules and Entry Form

Has the current economy forced you to change your wedding plans? If so, tell Behind the Veil your story. Enter their "Cure for the Wedding Day Blues Contest" for a chance to win your very own "Wedding Stimulus Package."

Win a "Free Wedding" valued over $20,000. Winner will be announced at their January 2009 bridal show. You must be present to win. Enter today; you can't afford not to!

The Bridal Show is Sunday, January 18, 2009
Show Time : 12.00pm - 7.00pm
Location: The DoubleTree Hotel - 2117 Route 4 Eastbound, Fort Lee, NJ 07024
Behind The Veil presents the ultimate fun, exquisite, bridal experience. Plan your day in style and create the wedding of your dreams. Be pampered with fabulous door prizes, chic giveaways, product samples and take home packages all exclusive to Behind The Veil Bridal Expos. Pre-register now for advance tickets & get everything you need to make your wedding day as perfect as ever! It's a show you don't want to miss...Happy Planning!

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How to Wear Veil and Bridal Combs

This latest tip from Bobette Kyle-Wagner describes "How to Wear Veil and Bridal Combs"

For brides who have no previous experience with developing a wedding hairstyle or choosing a headpiece and veil (or deciding to go without), understanding how to attach and adorn the various components can be a challenge. In the twilight zone called wedding planning, the simple concept of a comb, for example, can take several forms.

In your everyday life, a comb is probably something to run through your hair in the morning taming nighttime tangles. Your hairdresser will certainly use that type of comb while creating your wedding hairstyle, but there are two other bridal versions you may need as well: a comb to attach the veil and one to decorate your hair. The choice is yours whether to have both versions, neither, or one to suffice for both uses.

The Veil Comb

When you buy a veil, it often comes attached to a basic comb. This veil comb is purely functional and will not be a visible part of your veil or hairstyle. It simply helps secure the veil to the top or back of your head. The advantage to using this type of comb with your veil is you can remove the veil after the ceremony while leaving your headpiece intact for the reception.

To place this type of comb, push it into your hair -- down if you are wearing your veil in back or toward the back of your head if you are wearing the veil on top -- so the hair covers the teeth and the veil hides the top of the comb. For a more solid base, insert with the comb angled then rotate backwards into place after the comb is in your hair. You can make the comb more secure, if needed, with bobby or hair pins.

These combs can be various widths and lengths and made of wire or plastic. Wire combs cost more than plastic, but are more versatile and can be pinned if necessary (as opposed to plastic, which is thicker and more cumbersome).

The Decorative Bridal Comb

Unlike the plain veil combs, decorative bridal combs are made to be seen. They can be a perfect accent for your veil, or add interest to your hairstyle if you go veil-less or remove the veil for the reception. The range of styles and sizes available make them versatile and can enhance most hairstyles, from classic to ornate. They can be simple, but elegant, depending on how they are decorated, but can also create a less formal look than some other headpieces.

Hair combs can be worn on the top, side, or back of the head. In the back, you can secure a large comb under a bunch of upswept curls, around a French twist, or beneath a low-set bun. On one or both sides, you can wear smaller combs for an elegant style, instead of a larger headpiece. Decorative combs can also be worn on the top to help hold the hair in place or function much as a tiara. In fact, you can even buy tiaras attached to combs instead of built into the typical band.

Tiara Combs

You have heard of tiaras and you have heard of combs, but you may not know that there are also tiara combs. These look like a tiara but hold your hair or veil in place like a comb. These decorative combs are made with the teeth positioned at an angle so the decorated part stands erect when attached to your hair from the front (as opposed to back or side combs, which are made with the decoration attached flat against or parallel to the teeth section).

Combining Veil and Decorative Combs

Some brides prefer to wear the veil and decorative comb as one piece. You can accomplish this by attaching the veil directly to a tiara or other top/back comb instead of to the plain veil comb. This reduces the number of pieces you must deal with when developing a hairstyle for the ceremony, but limits your options for the rest of the day. You will have to remove both your headpiece and veil or keep your veil intact throughout the evening.

Whichever type of combs you use, involve your hair stylist in the decision. He or she will most likely have valuable input into what sizes and types will most create the look you desire, while assuring your hair remains drop-dead gorgeous throughout the day and evening.

By Bobette Kyle-Wagner
http://www.MyOnlineWeddingHelp.com

Honeymoon Giveaway Winner

Congratulations to Patricia Torres and Jose Molina of San Francisco, California.

They were the lucky winners of our most recent Honeymoon Giveaway, drawn on October 1, 2008.

Here is the what they said after being notified of their good fortune.

My fiancé and I met in Undergrad at Fresno State. We are both still students, pursuing a career in dentistry. After hearing from WedAlert about our new honeymoon, I couldn't help but be thankful. We were both extremely excited when we heard we won, since we had decided that a honeymoon abroad would be very hard to afford. I am personally a fan of WedAlert, it is currently helping me plan my wedding. It is the ultimate wedding site, and I encourage any bride-to-be, groom-to-be, or anybody to take a look and use it as a resource.

We are now offering our Honeymoon Giveaway 4 times a year!! That gives you and your Fiancé twice as many opportunites to win. WedAlert's next drawing for a Honeymoon Giveaway is on January 1, 2009. So Register now. Courtesy of askabouthoneymoons.com

Six Tips For A Worry-Free Wedding

From getting everyone to the church on time to making sure the centerpieces look stunning, planning the details of your wedding day can be stressful. Use these tips for a worry-free wedding day.

Details, details, details! From the perfect menu to the beautiful centerpieces, there are so many details to take care of when planning your dream wedding. But what happens when your perfect wedding is not so perfect? Let’s face it. There are plenty of opportunities for things to go awry. Even with the best-laid plans, things are bound to happen. But don’t worry. Here are some tips to help you panic-proof your wedding.

1. Don’t make any verbal agreements. Have everything in writing. Be specific about the items you want AND the things you don’t want. For example, if you don’t want to see a lot of posed pictures in your wedding photo album, it’s best to be specific about that and request more candid photos.

2. On the day of the wedding, bring along a survival kit for those little emergencies. Include a needle and thread, aspirin, safety pins, nail polish, hairpins, extra pantyhose and some hard candy or breath mints.

3. Do a test run. Practice driving the route to the ceremony at the time of day and day of week of your wedding. Check out traffic patterns, construction delays, etc. That way you’ll minimize surprises and will know how much time you’ll need to get to there.

4. Call all your wedding vendors and verify your bookings two or three days before the wedding. Confirm the time, date, location of the wedding and reception, directions to the sites and the services or items they'll be providing. A good way to know you are both on the same page is to have them read back the instructions from their notes.

5. Assign someone to take care of the last minute details, such as helping the bridal party get dressed, running errands to the store, etc. Provide her with the contact numbers for all of the vendors, just in case someone is running late.

6. Don’t wait until the last minute for anything. If possible, take care of as many details well in advance of the wedding. The night before the wedding is not the time to put together 200 wedding favors. Limit yourself to just a few small tasks and leave the rest of the day to relax.


What’s the best wedding day stress reliever? Realizing that, while you will have a wonderful day, a beautiful day or even a memorable day, it will most likely not be a perfect day. Try not to make a big deal about things and take it all in stride. Sometimes, it’s the quirky things that go wrong that help make your day memorable. Stressing over every detail can take the joy out of the wedding and the planning process. The most important thing to remember is that you are marrying the man of your dreams, and at the end of the day, that’s all that really matters.


By: Karen Sullen
My Wedding Favors

Who pays?? For most newlyweds, they are.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Who is financing your wedding? For most newlyweds, they are.

HACKENSACK, NJ (October 24, 2008)-WedAlert.com, one of the most popular and fastest growing interactive online wedding planning directories on the Internet, today announced the results of its poll on who was financing their wedding.

The choices and results were as follows*:
Parents of Bride: 15%
Parents of Groom: 1%
The Couple: 57%
Combination of the above: 27%

This clearly reflect the changes in traditional financing of the wedding, where the parents of the bride primarily footed the bill. "It also reveals that couples today are more financially able to pay the expenses associated with a wedding than brides and grooms of the past", says David Ciccolella, a founder of WedAlert.

*Poll Disclaimer: WedAlert.com polls reflect the views of those who choose to respond and are not scientifically valid surveys. The results cannot be assumed to represent the opinions of Internet users in general, nor the public as a whole. WedAlert.com is not responsible for the content or opinions expressed in the polls.

About WedAlert.com Established in 1995, with headquarters in Hackensack, NJ, WedAlert.com is one of the most popular and fastest growing interactive online wedding planning directories on the Internet whose mission is to match the local bride and groom with wedding professionals in their geographic area, taking them from the engagement all the way through to the “I do” straight through to the honeymoon. By offering free access to the largest wedding song library on the Internet and other multimedia tools, such as virtual tours and streaming video, WedAlert.com saves couples both valuable time and money involved in planning their wedding. For more information, please visit www.WedAlert.com.

A Maui Destination Wedding

I would like to discuss some of the advantages of a Maui destination wedding. These advantages include greater freedom, flexibility and financial control.

Planning a wedding in your home town will most likely mean that many family members and friends are going to want to help you plan it, unlike planning a Maui wedding. Chances are they might have some strong opinions, too. And, can you say "no" to your finance's mother who insists on paying for a cigar bar at your reception, while you happen to loathe cigars?

Planning for a wedding afar, especially to a premium destination such as Maui, changes all that. You can blithely say, "Oh, my wedding planner already booked us a smoke-free venue," or... you might not even invite anyone except your fiancé - something you can get away with in Hawaii, but not at the country club at home. The Beaverton relatives despise the Campanos' family - no problem. They can work it out while watching your wedding on Maui on streaming video at home and you won't have to witness the drama.

On the other hand, if you love the idea of having Mom, mother-in-law-to-be and six bridesmaids planning the whole affair, invite them and they can help out strewing petals and making shell centerpieces. Along this same vein, say you have long fantasized a bridal processional preceded by six Tahitian drummers in flowered loin cloths on a dream Maui beach. If you wanted to do this at home, and could even find the Tahitian drummers, what would Aunt Mildred say? In Pittsburgh, probably a lot. On Maui, she would just shrug and say "well, I guess 'when in Rome...'" She might actually love it, especially after a mai tai or two.

Because it is much easier to control the guest list in a destination wedding, it is easier to control the spending. You won't be expected to invite everyone you know or your sister knows, and even if you do, they won't all come. Because of the distance involved, people have to make a real effort and commitment to come to your Maui destination wedding, and only the ones who really want to be there will come. And, that's good. You probably won't get cousin Ed's former dorm mates, who are only looking for free drinks and cut bridesmaids. Another financial bonus is numerous, beautiful free Maui wedding sites.

So, in conclusion, a destination wedding in Maui or other lovely exotic locales will allow you more fun and freedom to plan the wedding of your dreams. You will likely save money, which you can use to hire a helicopter to escape to a different Hawaiian island, fleeing friends and family who do follow you after the wedding. And, they will be find, swimming, surfing, para gliding and trying to find the phone numbers of those Polynesian drummers.

by Rev. Ayesha Sandra Lee
Merry Maui Weddings & Vacations

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Portland Page added

The Portland Oregon Wedding page has been added to WedAlert. So if you are planning a Portland Wedding, visit it at http://www.wedalert.com/local_wedding_services/oregon/portland.asp.

Whether you are local to the area, or planning a destination wedding, Portland Oregon is a great setting for your wedding ceremony and reception.

If you are a Portland wedding professional, be sure to add your listing.

More New Local Wedding Professionals

WedAlert welcomes the following new preferred wedding professionals for the last week of July, 2008.

Sugar N Spice Events - FL - Wedding Consultants
Creative Photos - PA - Photography
Green Planet Ministry - NJ - Officiants/Clergy
VideoExperts - CT, NY - Videography
Elliott Event and Floral - WA - Florists and Event Decorations
Dave Ivaz Music - IL - Entertainment Orchestra, Entertainment Bands
Gerry Johnston, Guitarist - MA, CT, NH, RI and ME - Entertainment Musicians
Exquisite Events - LA - Wedding Consultants
Wedding Window - MA - Unique Services
From The Gown Up - WA - Bridal Shops-Gowns and Bridal Accessories
Windstar Gardens Event Center - AZ - Banquet Facilities and Reception Sites, Ceremony Locations and Rehearsal Dinner-Shower Locations.

If you are a wedding professional and would like to learn more about WedAlert can do for your business, visit our Wedding Professionals page

See and Hear California Wedding Bands

WedAlert offers the ability to see and hear local wedding bands and musicians on your computer. You can attend "virtual band showcases" to help you narrow down your prospective choices for live entertainment. Below are some California wedding bands to listen to.

Judy Chamberlain Entertainment Extraordinary live music. Jazz, swing, big band, Old Hollywood vintage, retro, pop and rock. "Eclectic & versatile...mesmerizing." LA Times
Rossi Music Lead jazz, classical and contemporary ensembles for parties large and small, working with the cream of the Los Angeles studio musicians, touring professionals and orchestra leaders.
The Lomatones The Lomatones are one of the most entertaining dance bands the San Diego area has to offer. We will work with your budget.
Bill Chico Jazz Quartet For all and any occasions BILL CHICO JAZZ QUARTET will perform for that special event
de Bois Productions Bands and Special Live Entertainment for Weddings, Corporate Events, Private parties and more.
Ivory Treasures Wedding Music Many of today’s most popular artists and music legends have been reinterpreted by Steve Siu into modern solo piano renditions.
Mitch Landy Harpist About Harpguy Mitch Landy of the San Francisco Bay Area Combining a classical music education (M.A. in musicology, U.C. Berkeley) with an eclectic musical taste, Mitch Landy brings a fresh approach to the harp.
The Music Connection Orchestra We'd love to help you make your wedding reception everything you want it to be.
Phil and Brenda Nicholas Phil and Brenda Nicholas have been motivating, inspiring and challenging audiences and congregations throughout the world.
Rebecca Kyler Downs and Rossi Music Rossi Music offers the cream of Los Angeles jazz, classical and contemporary bands.
AzzMazz Music Jean will sing at your function, whether it's a wedding, private party, or a self-defined event to be named later.
Su Buchignani Music My musicians have been delighting Northern California clients for over a quarter of a century.

Mississippi Weddings

The Mississippi Wedding page has been added to WedAlert. So if you are planning a Mississippi Wedding, visit it at http://www.wedalert.com/local_wedding_services/Mississippi/.

Whether you are local to the area, or planning a destination wedding, Mississippi is a great setting for your wedding ceremony and reception.

New Local Wedding Professionals

We at WedAlert would like to welcome our new preferred wedding profesionals for the 1st week of July.

P.C. Party Girl Events FL Wedding Consultants

Big Mike's DJ Entertainment AL, MS Entertainment DJ's

Innovative Incentive IL, WI Invitations & Announcements

Crave Chocolate IL, WI Candy-Chocolate-Fountains

Personalweddingmusic.com NJ Entertainment Musicians

Bette-Jean's Elegant Floral Designs ME, NH Florists and Event Decorations

All Colorado Wedding Photography CO Photography

Markel Photography PA, NJ, DE Photography

If you are looking for any of the above services please visit their sites and tell them you found them on WedAlert.

Find more local wedding professionals in our directory.

Slashing Wedding Food Costs

With rising gas costs and other expenses through the roof, Kelly Howell of
www.wedding-reception-food-ideas.com provides the following ideas to save money planning your wedding reception.

The cost for food and drinks for your wedding can easily climb to several thousand dollars, but it doesn't have to. Here are several tips that will save you money and still provide you with the classy wedding you've dreamed of:

1. The biggest cost saver, whether you are using a caterer or planning the food yourself, is to schedule the wedding and reception at a time of day when a full sit-down meal won't be expected by guests. An afternoon/evening cocktail or dessert reception can save you thousands of dollars when compared with an elaborate dinner.

2. Next, be smart when planning beverages for your reception. An open bar can break the bank. Consider a classy champagne punch or a wine instead (or even an alcohol-free punch). And remember that it is always less expensive to purchase and serve the drinks yourself than to pay a caterer or bartender to do so.

3. Second to alcohol, the biggest food and beverage expense is usually meat for the wedding reception or dinner. Keeping meat to a minimum is another easy way to trim your wedding food costs. Choosing a vegetarian entree, a dish whose main ingredient is not meat, or a less expensive cut of meat are all wise decisions that will positively impact your food budget.

4. Another easy place to save money is on the wedding cake. Bakers and caterers often charge anywhere from $2-6 per slice to make and/or serve the wedding cake. For about $1 per slice, you can purchase a nice cake at a bakery and have a friend cut and serve it at the reception.

5. If you are well-organized and have a good support system of friends and family willing to help, you may wish to consider planning and making your own food for your reception. You can save several thousand dollars by doing so. And it's not as difficult as you may think. Food for a dessert reception, for example, can be made ahead and served cold the day of the wedding with little effort on anyone's part. For many brides, the extra work is worth the savings if it means more money to spend on the honeymoon or being able to afford a designer wedding gown.

The food for your wedding is one of the easiest expenses to slash, while still allowing the smart bride and groom to host a very nice affair. Be creative, ask questions, don't be afraid to ask for cheaper menu items, and do as much yourselves as you can handle, and you will be able to trim hundreds (if not thousands) from your wedding food costs.

WedAlert tip: In certain locations some of the above suggestions are not feasible, but many catering halls/reception sites offer much cheaper price per plate (which include food and drinks) depending on the date and time of your reception. So while the reception hall may not permit you to bring in your own food, a Friday night or Sunday afternoon reception will be substantially less that a Saturday night.

Wedding Invitations – How to be Creative Even on the Outside

Wedding invitations are one of the few pieces of mail that people enjoy receiving. It’s fun to open up that envelope knowing there’s a custom invitation inside. But amidst all of today’s junk mail, how can you make your envelope stand out to get your guests’ attention?

There are actually several ways you can make your mailing envelope as unique as your wedding invitation.

• Shape - With so many wedding invitation designs available today, you could easily select a uniquely shaped style such as square or tea length. The mailing envelope will then reflect that same distinctive size to fit the invitation.
  
  
• Style - Another option is to select a Seal and Send wedding invitation style. This all-in-one invitation is designed to be folded into a self-mailing piece eliminating the need for a mailing envelope. The response card is attached to the invitation so it can be easily detached by your wedding guest along the perforation. This also eliminates the response card return mailing envelope and saves on your postage cost as it only requires a postcard stamp.
  
  
• Color - How about using color for emphasis? Some wedding invitations now come with colored mailing envelopes. In particular, self-mailer invitations often include a colored envelopment. The envelopment holds your invitation card and has a built-in pocket for keeping any extra enclosures. It is then folded up wrapping around all your invitation pieces to become your mailing envelope.
  
  
• Decorative Seals - Adding a seal to your wedding invitation envelope could be that extra touch you’ve been looking for. Even though your envelope is sealed, you can choose to place a special seal on the back so it gives the illusion that the seal is actually holding the flap down. There are many seal design choices, from monograms to first names to specific themes. Their appearance can be clear, white, silver, gold, embossed, etc.
  
  
• Custom Wedding Stamps - There are now websites that offer you the option of creating your own personalized postage stamps using an uploaded photo or choosing from ready-to-use wedding designs. This is a great way to dress up your wedding invitation envelopes to reflect your personal style.

You want to be sure your wedding invitation gets the attention of your guests as soon as it arrives in their mail and that it doesn’t get lost in their sea of junk mail and bills. Using any of the above suggestions will surely accomplish this and will start building their excitement even before they see your actual invitation.

By Sara Haese
Printed Creations Wedding Store

Fall Wedding Dresses - 5 Ideas That Fit Your Style and the Season

Fall wedding dresses come in several styles to fit just about any type of bride. If you are having a fall wedding you will want to choose a dress that not only accents your body type but also accents the great season you have chosen for your wedding.

Good advice in any season is to be smart when shopping for your wedding dress. Use all resources available to you including bridal shops, bridal shows, department stores and of course the Internet.

The Internet has become a great source for all stages of selecting fall wedding dresses. Many online stores make shopping for the best price a snap, and you may even be able to locate hard to find styles and sizes.

As you probably already know, fall is a great time to get married. The bright foliage available in many parts of the country makes the perfect backdrop for your wedding.

Below are five tips for finding perfect fall wedding dresses.

The Weather -The location of your wedding may influence the type of dress you choose. Long sleeve gowns or gloves are an option however they are not for everyone.

Stoles or wraps are a good way to ensure you will not be cold on your wedding day. They can keep you warm if the temperature drops in the evening, and if it turns out to be a warm day you can just not wear it.

Unique Colors - Colors such as cream and ivory have become very popular for fall. These colors work well with the colors of the season, like gold, red and orange.

For a more edgy look, black wedding dresses allow you to make a statement. If all black isn't your style, a black sash or belt makes a great accent for a white wedding dress.

Tie in Your Wedding Theme - There are several wedding themes that work really well in the fall, and fall wedding dresses can be used to tie everything together. Fall theme ideas include Halloween, vineyard, apple, pear, princess and harvest.

Gothic, princess and renaissance style dresses can help finish off your theme.

Use Accent Pieces - Accent pieces can be a beautiful addition to an elegant gown, or they can help an average dress up a level. Crystal and silver brocade embellishments or gold beading and accents are a nice touch.

Be careful not to go overboard, however. Some dresses don't need any extra touches, and it is always best to stick to the adage that less is sometimes more.

Don’t Delay - Finding the right dress for you can definitely be challenging. Starting the process early helps to reduce stress, and it can also helps ensure you get your first choice of dress.

A rule of thumb is to start the process at least one year in advance. This ensures enough time for ordering and altering your dress.

By Stephen Badiali
Wedding Ideas Guide

Wedding Invitations – How to be Creative Even on the Outside

Wedding invitations are one of the few pieces of mail that people enjoy receiving. It’s fun to open up that envelope knowing there’s a custom invitation inside. But amidst all of today’s junk mail, how can you make your envelope stand out to get your guests’ attention?

There are actually several ways you can make your mailing envelope as unique as your wedding invitation.

• Shape - With so many wedding invitation designs available today, you could easily select a uniquely shaped style such as square or tea length. The mailing envelope will then reflect that same distinctive size to fit the invitation.
  
  
• Style - Another option is to select a Seal and Send wedding invitation style. This all-in-one invitation is designed to be folded into a self-mailing piece eliminating the need for a mailing envelope. The response card is attached to the invitation so it can be easily detached by your wedding guest along the perforation. This also eliminates the response card return mailing envelope and saves on your postage cost as it only requires a postcard stamp.
  
  
• Color - How about using color for emphasis? Some wedding invitations now come with colored mailing envelopes. In particular, self-mailer invitations often include a colored envelopment. The envelopment holds your invitation card and has a built-in pocket for keeping any extra enclosures. It is then folded up wrapping around all your invitation pieces to become your mailing envelope.
  
  
• Decorative Seals - Adding a seal to your wedding invitation envelope could be that extra touch you’ve been looking for. Even though your envelope is sealed, you can choose to place a special seal on the back so it gives the illusion that the seal is actually holding the flap down. There are many seal design choices, from monograms to first names to specific themes. Their appearance can be clear, white, silver, gold, embossed, etc.
  
  
• Custom Wedding Stamps - There are now websites that offer you the option of creating your own personalized postage stamps using an uploaded photo or choosing from ready-to-use wedding designs. This is a great way to dress up your wedding invitation envelopes to reflect your personal style.
  

You want to be sure your wedding invitation gets the attention of your guests as soon as it arrives in their mail and that it doesn’t get lost in their sea of junk mail and bills. Using any of the above suggestions will surely accomplish this and will start building their excitement even before they see your actual invitation.

Sara Haese
http://www.PrintedCreationsWeddingStore.com
Visitors can also sign up to receive her FREE Wedding Invitation Guide.

Twin Cities has been added

The Twin Cities Metro Wedding page has been added to WedAlert. So if you are planning a wedding in the St. Paul - Minneapolis Metro area or the surrounding counties, visit http://www.wedalert.com/local_wedding_services/minnesota/St.Paul-Minneapolis_Twin_Cities.asp.

10 Mistakes to Avoid when Planning your Wedding Reception

Your wedding day is a time of celebration with light-hearted, good times that create happy memories. Above all, the day is supposed to be fun.

The less stress you feel on your big day, the more fun you'll have. Great planning helps you avoid forgetting important details. Avoid these stumbling blocks that threaten to ruin your happy day:


1. Not prioritizing your budget on the important things. The banquet is over, and now the party begins. If the majority of your reception time will be spent listening to music and dancing, it makes sense to allocate a proportionate amount of your budget to the vendor responsible for your entertainment. Whether it’s a band or a DJ, the key idea here is quality.


2. Not communicating with your vendors. Have a thorough conversation with all of your vendors, and let them know EXACTLY what you expect. Don’t assume that, because they are professionals with years of experience, they automatically know what you want. Each bride’s vision is different. Vendors want to avoid disappointing you, so share the details of your dream with them from the beginning.


3. Not communicating your needs and expectations with your bridal party. Let each person in your bridal party know, prior to your wedding day, where they are supposed to be and when. Important moments at your reception can’t be rehearsed, so prepare a timetable for your bridal party that includes the Grand Entrance, speeches and toasts, bridal dances and any planned photo opportunities. They will be grateful for your organization.


4. Waiting until the last minute. Finish everything on your checklist at least two days before your wedding. You don’t want to be scribbling place cards at 2 a.m. on your wedding day. Give yourself and your groom a task-free day or two before the wedding to relax and rejuvenate.


5. Having too much to drink early in the day or the night before. Not only is it a good idea to avoid alcohol until the final party hours, it’s best to stay hydrated by drinking water or other non-alcoholic beverages. If you can’t resist a good nip, be sure to eat something.


6. Spending too much time taking pictures. There are the photographs of special moments you MUST have, pictures of spontaneous moments that are FUN to have, and staged photos that become a nuisance. Don’t be afraid to say NO to your photographer when you’ve had enough.


7. Losing your perspective. Keep your mind on what the day is about, and on the things and people that are really important to you. Don't get bogged down in so many details that you forget to have FUN! If something goes wrong, try your best to take deep breaths and think about the big picture. Don’t let the little things that might go wrong ruin your night. Above all, keep your sense of humor!


8. Getting stressed or overwhelmed. Eat! Talk! Dance! Have Fun! Keep things simple. After you’ve greeted your guests, let them find you if they wish to visit.


9. Not planning an exit strategy. Assign end-of-the-night tasks to others you trust, so you can leave unburdened. Final duties might include gathering gifts and transporting them “home,” paying the hall, and removing decorations -- including flowers, centerpieces and other wedding notions.


10. Immediately leaving on your honeymoon. Try not to plan a 6 a.m. departure the day after your wedding. Give yourselves a day to recuperate and get your things together. Better yet, go back to work for a week before leaving on your honeymoon.


By Mike Staff
Mike Staff Productions

Copyright: 2007

Memphis Tennessee Weddings

The Memphis Wedding page has been added to WedAlert. So if you are planning a Memphis Tennessee Wedding, visit it at http://www.wedalert.com/local_wedding_services/tennessee/memphis.asp.

Whether you are local to the area, or planning a destination wedding, Memphis is a great setting for your wedding ceremony and reception.

Artistic Ideas to Jazz Up Your Wedding Accessories

Blushing fiancés like nothing better than to be blushing brides. It is every little girl’s dream to fall in love with that seemingly perfect man, have the ala-Princess Diana wedding of the century, and settle into a happy and fulfilled married life. But before you get comfortable, you need to prepare for one of the biggest and most memorable events in your life – your wedding. Yes ladies, this is your big chance to be in control and show everyone how much you and your partner love each other – from the ceremony to the reception. And in both opportunities, you naturally want only the finest wedding paraphernalia you can get. Wedding accessories are a fun opportunity to further satisfy an engaged woman’s shopping fantasies. One might even turn into such a perfectionist in her quest for the best wedding accessories. But to help keep that lady from stressing out over the details, here are some wonderful ideas that are easy to find and will surely wow your guests with no effort at all.

To start off, your wedding cake server set can be functional and cute at the same time. At your wedding reception, impress everyone with your eye for detail by wrapping lovely ribbons and lace on your server. Have not got the time for this little art project? Go out and look for a pretty heart shaped or heart detailed server that your guests will all be agog for.

Next on your list is the perfect adornment for your wedding cake. While the cake itself should taste decadent, you also want to have a beautiful cake topper as well. You can personalize your cake topper by having it engraved with you and your groom’s initials, in addition to a symbol of your love. It does not have to be the standard ceramic bride and groom figurines, no! Be different and choose something else – double hearts, or something else that symbolizes your love that guests will recognize and appreciate.

The wedding guestbook also needs some jazzing up, especially since it will contain a lot of beautiful messages from all your guests. If you’ve been bitten by the artistic bug, you can create a collage of you and your husband’s pictures on the front and back of the book. Tech-savvy brides can also use a software which will allow you to design a beautiful cover and have it printed out. There are websites that allow you to do this, and all you have to do is wait for them to ship your customized wedding book!

Submitted by Engraved Gift Creations

Unity Candles: A Symbol of a Couple’s Love

Your wedding is one of the greatest milestones which you could every experience in your life. It is an event which has a lot of meaning and you want to share it with your friends and loved ones. In short, your wedding is holder of many symbols of the love between you and your future husband, as well as your love as a couple for every single person who is in attendance on that memorable day. Because it is a holder of symbols, many different things that are ever-present in your wedding also stand for things that ultimately point towards the direction of love, togetherness and eternity. One such symbol is the unity candle. The lighting of the unity candle is a beautiful wedding tradition that has been carried on for centuries. One can only hold his or her breath in awe as the unity candles are lit, as a sign of your love and willingness to go through life as a couple.

These unity candles are used during the wedding ceremony, specifically in the part where the vows are read and the corresponding rituals and traditions follow. Unity candles are a lot more special than the other decorative illuminants in your wedding, as they hold a special meaning and stand out from the rest by being lit during the time when you declare wholeheartedly your desire and determination to spend forever with a single person until death do you part. However, the purpose and beauty of unity candles do not end with “You many now kiss the bride” or when everyone leaves for the much-awaited reception festivities. Some couples specifically instruct their aides to bring the unity candles with them to the reception hall and be placed in front of the couple’s dining table as a way to romantically illuminate and further enhance and solidify the evidence of their togetherness.

Unity candles are a wonderful part of any couple’s wedding mementos. Apart from the obligatory keeping of the wedding dress, ring cushion and other whatnots, the unity candles are also carefully placed in storage as part of the remembrance of that special day. Some couples even make it a point to continue to celebrate their relationship year in and year out with their unity candle, bringing it out and lighting it for a moment as they reminisce of that beautiful day that they were proclaimed man and wife. Some, in their old age, keep it out as a symbol of the love that has carried them through the decades and now look forward to a quiet togetherness in their twilight years, with plenty of beautiful memories to share together.

Indeed, unity candles are more than just some pretty store-bought item that must be purchased to complete the entire wedding procedure. Unity candles are meant to be cherished not just for their beauty and intricacy, but for the symbol it carries – the love of a man and woman and their desire to create a beautiful life of their very own.

Submitted by Engraved Gift Creations