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I have already gotten married and had six of my best friends in the first wedding. I am getting married again and did not ask any of them to be in it but asked two friends that I am close to as well as they know my groom better. I feel bad and can't imagine my best friends not being in the wedding but thought that they had been there done that and they have kids, etc. I just don't know how to tell them. Any suggestions?
(Tara at 10/10/2007)
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Hi Tara,
I am not sure what makes you think they want to be in your wedding party again.
I would say don't make an issue of it all and just invite them to the wedding.
If they ask just tell them what you told me.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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I am having my son walk me down the aisle. I am needing a recommendation of a song for a first dance w/ him and his brother. Instead of the father/daughter dance. Any suggestions?
(Lila at 9/20/2007)
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Hi Lila,
I would suggest
"Have I told You Lately That I Love You" by Rod Stewart
Or
"I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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Hi, both of us have been married before but my first was a rather simple one with no guests, can i still have my white dress?
(Annmarie at 6/14/2007)
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Hi Annmarie, Yes you can still have a white dress.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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Want a song that is appropriate for mother/son. Mother being one that is getting married with one son.
(Cathy at 6/6/2007)
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Hi Cathy, You will find a listing of songs on www.wedalert.com And you will also find information on this question in the Advice section of www.wedalert.com
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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With a second marriage, (we are oler and have teen/adult children), is it still okay to wear a veil and tiara with my wedding dress?
(Terri at 4/11/2007)
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Hi Terri, Brides do wear a veil and tiara for a second wedding. I will admit I do suggest no long veil and tiara (for a second wedding) but that is just my opinion there is no rule that says you can't do this
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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I am the mother of the groom. It is my son's first marriage but the bride's second and she has a 4 yr. old son. They both own homes and have lived on their own for at least 5 years. I don't believe she should have a shower but I would like to throw some kind of party for the 2 of them. the really don't need house hold items, but my son has no tools or things for home improvements. Any ideas for a party. Is it ok to throw an engagement party or instead of a bridal shower a just for the groom party or a his and hers wedding shower. Anyways, help please
(fay at 3/20/2007)
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Hi Fay, You could host a "Home Improvement Jack And Jill Shower" which would be for both the bride and groom. Men and women are invited to a Jack and Jill Shower. The bride and groom could register for home improvement items from Home Depot, Lowes, etc, etc.. When you send the invitation it would be OK to include that registry information .
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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I am the maid of honor for my friends second wedding. She has been divored for almost 10 years, is it ok to have a bachlorette party or a wedding shower?? I am new to this and she has left things kinda in my hands.
(jamie at 3/1/2007)
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Hi Jamie,
Usually there is no party or shower the second time around.
However if friends want to have one anyway I suggest keep it low key.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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My mom is getting married for the 2nd time in LasVegas, this is the 2nd marriage for both of them. We are sending out approx 15 invites, my mom absolutely WANTS NO GIFTS, how abouts would you suggest we tell people this, (I notice you have told many people that it is improper to mention gifts in the invitations). they are not having a bridal party ect, and I dont talk to many of the people they are inviting, so I can't really spread the word for them...?
(maray at 1/21/2007)
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Hi Maray,
It would be completely proper to include on the wedding invitation
"No Gifts Please"
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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My daughter has beautiful designer gown from first wedding.......is now divorced...would like to know if proper to wear for second wedding
(LINDA at 10/26/2006)
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Hi Linda,
There is no rule that says she could not wear it again. It would be completely up to the bride.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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Hi Mikki. My mom and her boyfriend are both getting married for the second time. I am the maid of honour and just wondering what my role is. I don't know if I have to have a Jack and Jill and Bridal Shower. They are having a small wedding, family only ~40 people and then an open reception dance. Thank you for your help
(Lynette at 10/23/2006)
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Hi Lynette,
The Jack and Jill shower is usually hosted by the best man and the maid of honor. The other attendents could help with the planning and expences too.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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This is my 1st marriage but my fiance's 2nd. We have been together for 16 yrs and have finally decided to make things official. My mother is not overly crazy about us getting married and my father is not in the picture. Is it okay to walk down the isle by myself. Also, is it appropriate to create a bridal registry somewhere?
(Karen at 10/16/2006)
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Hi Karen,
It is fine for you to walk by yourself.
You should register so that those who would like to buy you a gift will know what you want and need.
It is improper to include registry information with your wedding invitation.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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Dear Mikki,
Both my fiancé and I have been married before, we want a small ceremony, like getting married in court and have a reception dinner for our friends and families, but the problem is the relatives that introduced us 2 yrs ago is pushing us to have a big wedding in all, and we really don’t know how to say “NO” to them. What would you suggest?
(Lily at 10/16/2006)
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Hi Lily,
I suggest you say....
"Thank you for your suggestion we will take it under consideration"
Then do exactly what you want to do.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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My sister in law has been divorced for 15 years. She is 50 years old and wants to do the complete big wedding as though it were her first. White/long wedding gown, reception/dance etc. All the guests attended her first wedding. Is a bridal shower appropriate?
Thanks,
Jeri
(Jeri at 10/15/2006)
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Hi Jeri,
If it is the groom's first wedding there could be a shower.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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Mikki:
My fiance' and I are "going around once again" in marriage however, we want it simple, justice-o-the-peace style, perhaps on the beach at sunrise. (Block Island, RI). We're in our late 50's and don't want all the fanfare this time around. It's for us.
We've tried to locate a Justice of the Peace to perform the ceremony but, today - in New England - it's like pulling teeth to find anyone.
In addition, we're not old - thinking we're youthed but, approaching 60 - we'd like time for us in our own special way - simply to be in love once again and spend the rest of our lives together.
As it is said: I have found my companion, friend and love of my life and we share the same endeavors. Been there - done that - kids are grown - Vietnam and both professional seniors. We finally found each other and somehow wish we were 20 once again but, we "have it in our experience" and only ask that we can hold each other and say our vows for the rest of our lives.
Mikki: I found that little "present" I kept in my heart all these years but never knew who it was.
Any advice ????
(Gary at 9/27/2006)
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Hi Gary,
It sounds like you know exactly what you want.
Have fun!!
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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If this is my first marriage and my fiances second can we have a religious ceremony (on the beach) without having his first marriage annulled?
(Cheryl at 9/26/2006)
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Hi Cheryl,
There are so many rules for different religions I suggest you ask your clergy.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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This will be the second marriage for my son. My concern is the invites . I want to invite friends that where there before but not have them feel they must attend. How do I go about doing this without offending anyone? Thank you
(Christine at 9/6/2006)
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Hi Christine, I suggest you send the invitations and let them decide if they would like to attend the wedding.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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This will be the second marriage for my son. my concern is the invites . I want to invite friends that where thre before but not have them feel they must attend.How do I go about doing this without offending anyone. Thank you
(Christine at 9/6/2006)
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Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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hi, i am getting married dec.1,2006. it is my second marriage my husbands first. we are not having a large wedding party only a best man, matron of honor, flower girl and ring bearer. My question is on attire. Do my Dad and Jons Dad wear suits or tuxedos. My first wedding the fathers wore tuxedos.
(kalene at 9/5/2006)
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Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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hi, i am getting married dec.1,2006. it is my second marriage my husbands first. we are not having a large wedding party only a best man, matron of honor, flower girl and ring bearer. My question is on attire. Do my Dad and Jons Dad wear suits or tuxedos. My first wedding the fathers wore tuxedos.
(kalene at 9/5/2006)
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HI Kalene,
In this case the dads could wear tuxedos or suits.
You and your groom can decide what would be best.
Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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hi, i am getting married dec.1,2006. it is my second marriage my husbands first. we are not having a large wedding party only a best man, matron of honor, flower girl and ring bearer. My question is on attire. Do my Dad and Jons Dad wear suits or tuxedos. My first wedding the fathers wore tuxedos.
(kalene at 9/5/2006)
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Best Wishes,
Mikki |
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